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« on: April 22, 2018, 05:43:24 PM »

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The BDSM room is a haven for learning on any BDSM topic. To facilitate this, we have designated a Topic of the Day. Guests are welcome to bring up any questions or new topics at any time, but we will direct chat toward the stated topic if there is a lag in the chat. On Topic photographs, art, quotations, thoughts, ideas, definitions, links, questions, teaching, experiences, and even jokes are welcome during the day and chats.

We will provide a few articles to refer to before chat.

We do ask that only on-topic photos and art be shared so that we don’t detract from the flow of chat.

To add:
-Contracts
-Switching
-What a submissive needs to expect and demand from a potential Dominant
-sterotypes of behavior being applied to control roles e.g. a sub refusing to do activities for a dominant because it wasn't what they considered dominant desires
-consent from all aspects, from the fallacy of implied consent to enthusiastic consent to expressed consent
-recipes and food play


Fetishes
•   The World's 10 Most Common Fetishes, Revealed  https://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa/25_love_secrets.html
•   25 Fetishes You Probably Never Knew Existed  https://www.buzzfeed.com/alejandroalba/fetishes-you-probably-never-knew-existed?utm_term=.obrVZj3KLY#.dr60eVqMBA
•   Metro’s A to Z of fetishes  http://metro.co.uk/2017/07/05/metros-a-to-z-of-fetishes-b-is-for-balls-balloons-and-burping-6721512/?ito=cbshare


aftercare
sub drop/Top drop
shibari/kinbaku/ties
leather/steel bondage
impact play
sensation play
subspace/top space
safety/safewords/SSC/RACK/PRICK
serving
etiquette/high protocol

Advice for New Lifestylers
•   http://www.evilmonk.org/A/begintip.cfm
•   https://www.katekinsey.com/advice-to-the-newbie-submissive.html
•   http://www.leathernroses.com/domination/advicenewdom.htm

50 Shades of BDSM Myths
•   https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/02/16/fifty-shades-of-grey-isnt-bdsm_n_6684808.html
•   https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201702/50-shades-happier-the-truth-about-bdsm-participants
•   https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/common-bdsm-myths-its-not-a-new-fad-its-not-violent-and-not-everyone-who-partakes-is-psychologically-a6702396.html

Pervertables/DIY Toys/Household Toys
•   https://www.kinkly.com/7/1058/passion-play/what-household-items-make-good-sex-toys
•   https://curioussub.wordpress.com/tag/pervertables/
•   http://www.frugaldomme.com/manufact/

Rewards and Punishment
•   http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/bryantreward.htm
•   https://asavory.wordpress.com/2011/06/21/punishments-and-rewards/
•   http://spirituallysubmissive.blogspot.com/p/punishment.html

What is BDSM/Philosophy                                                                                                                                     •   https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201206/loving-introduction-bdsm
•   https://www.buzzfeed.com/caseygueren/ultimate-guide-to-bdsm?utm_term=.iqnJ2jRyw#.unXQrGnE2
•   http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=681&chapter=1                                                            
Relationship Dynamics/Collar Types/Collaring
•   http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/ravenrelationships.htm
•   http://www.libertypress.net/index.php/leather-life/604-d-s-relationships
•   http://www.bdsmdigest.com/bdsm-devices/types-of-collars/
•   http://bestslavetraining.com/training-techniques/general-slave-collar/

Limits/Rules
•   https://bdsmtrainingacademy.com/hard-limits-vs-soft-limits/
•   http://www.chicagonow.com/kinky-dominatrix/2012/11/kinky-bdsm-limits/
•   http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/skorpiolimits.htm

Role Play Online and Off
•   https://www.submissiveloving.com/bdsmscenes.html
•   https://bdsmtrainingacademy.com/the-keys-to-role-play/
•   https://www.lelo.com/blog/explore-sexual-role-playing/

Fear in the Scene
•   https://bdsmtrainingacademy.com/should-a-slave-be-afraid/
•   http://www.paganbdsm.org/brokentoys/misc_panicattack.html
•   http://www.kinkweekly.com/article-jenn/responsible-fear-play/

BDSM vs. Abuse
•   http://domsubfriends.com/library/bd-v-ab.shtml
•   http://www.sirbamm.com/smvabuse.html
•   http://sextoyslsos.com/sex-tips/bdsm-vs-abuse/


Journaling and journaling topics
Relationship rules
Public outings/public BDSM
Self-care for the unpaired
Tools and Toys
Self-training for the unpaired
How kinky is kinky?
Mental and Physical Handicaps in BDSM
The BDSM Spectrum

Gor
•   New to Gorean forums? by Dragon   http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=206&chapter=1
•   The Word "slut" by Nahdia   http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=63&chapter=1
•   Quotes of Gor                     http://www.gor-now.net/delphius2002/id58.htm#Slavery%20Quotes

BDSM and D/s as a Trend
•   How BDSM Culture Plays A Role In The Fashion Industry  http://www.fagansfinds.com/home/bdsm-culture-in-the-fashion-industry
•   SEX: The hottest trends   https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/tips/g1122/sex-trends-hot-sex-trends/?slide=1
•   BedPost: Popular culture often misrepresents BDSM  http://www.thepostathens.com/article/2017/09/bdsm-history-bed-post

Extremes in the lifestyle
•   BDSM Wiki http://www.bdsmwiki.info/Category:Edge_Play
•   Defining GroinTorment: Genitorture & Groinbusting  https://fetlife.com/groups/88641/group_posts/4731807
•   Humiliation Chart - Ideas for BDSM Humiliation Play https://bdsmcafe.com/resources/bdsm-activities-guides-tutorials/humiliation-chart-ideas-bdsm-humiliation-play/

Dreaming, BDSM fantasy scenes
•   13 Of The Kinkiest Fantasies People Are Into   https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/kinky-things-that-people-are-actually-into?utm_term=.abyAwq5BgP#.xcR3X4AmEB
•   How Common Are BDSM Fantasies?   https://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2014/11/12/how-common-are-bdsm-fantasies-infographic
•   24 Men Admit To The Perverted Sexual Fantasies They’re Too Embarrassed To Tell Anyone About   https://thoughtcatalog.com/lisa-woods/2016/09/24-naughty-men-admit-to-the-perverted-sexual-fantasies-theyre-too-embarrassed-to-tell-anyone-about/

Tasks
•   Some Tips For Online Task Development  http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=356&chapter=1
•   12 Tasks for Your Sub To Do   https://blog.swingtowns.com/fetish/submissive-tasks/
•   Tasks and Projects – How To Keep Them In Line  http://dominantguide.com/524/tasks-and-projects-how-to-keep-them-in-line/

Hot Pics, Hotter Quotes
•   Sex.com BDSM http://www.sex.com/pics/bdsm/
•   BDSM on Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/Amethystrain1/bdsm/?lp=true
•   15 BDSM Tumblrs to satisfy all your kinks  https://www.dailydot.com/irl/bdsm-tumblr/BDSM horror stories/ how not to do it

BDSM horror stories/ how not to do it
•   BDSM Dangers  https://thepowerexchange.wordpress.com/back-to-the-basics/bdsm-dangers/
•   A sobering reminder about the inherent dangers in what we do  http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=593&chapter=1
•   Emergency Training for SM Practitioners  http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=58&chapter=1

Game Day - the fun kind. We'll have a few chat games throughout the day
•   Room Slut
•   Pole Dancing
•   Harmony
•   Naughty Trivia
•   The Ballroom
•   Serves

How-To do your favorite BDSM thing
•   A Beginner's Guide to BDSM: Using and Enjoying Restraint Play Sex Toys  https://www.sportsheets.com/pages/beginners-guide-bdsm-using-enjoying-restraint-play-sex-toys-slp
•   Beginner's Guide To Sensation Play  https://www.uberkinky.co.uk/essential-guides/sensation-play-guides/beginners-guide-to-sensation-play.html
•   Role-Playing Scenarios  https://www.submissiveloving.com/bdsmscenes.html
•   The Garden How-To  http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/browse.php?type=categories&catid=12

DD/lg, MD/lb, CG,l ageplay, infantilism, littles, middles, and Bigs
•   What is the DD/lg dynamic?  http://daddys-doll.blogspot.com/2013/09/what-is-ddlg-dynamic.html
•   What Makes a Good Daddy/Mommy? http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=342&chapter=1
•   Littles and Age-players - What's the Difference?  http://a-little-understanding.webs.com/littlesvsageplayers.htm

Petplay, Animal play, Pony play
•   BDSM 101: What is Petplay?  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HjpmYgPxQ7M
•   Checklist for Petplay   http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=531&chapter=1
•   Pet Play  https://limitsunleashed.com/2017/01/05/pet-play/

BDSM and D/s art, stories, and poetry
•   The Masque The Attic  http://www.themasque.net/efiction/browse.php?type=categories&catid=4
•   deviantArt BDSM  https://www.deviantart.com/newest/?section=&global=1&q=bdsm
•   Poetry and Prose  http://www.leathernroses.com/poems/poems.htm

Training
•   What Does a Dom Mean When He Says, "You Need Training" https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/what-does-a-dom-mean-when-he-says-you-need-training
•   The Basics of Slave Training  http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=372&chapter=1
•   An Introduction to BDSM: How to be a Dom  http://domcoaching.com/introduction-to-kink-being-dominant

Dangerous BDSM
•   Exploring The Dunning-Kruger effect in BDSM  http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=597&chapter=1
•   Walking In A Wannabee Wonderland: My Experience With A Wannabee Slave  http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=434&chapter=1
•   Is S&M dangerous? Let’s look at the evidence  http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/human_nature/2013/07/bondage_s_m_dominance_and_submission_are_they_dangerous_let_s_look_at_the.html

BDSM and the Law
•   The Law, S/M and You  https://www.evilmonk.org/a/law.cfm
•   CONSENT and BDSM: The State of the Law https://www.ncsfreedom.org/component/k2/item/580-consent-and-bdsm-the-state-of-the-law
•   WTF: Since When is BDSM Technically Against the Law?  https://milk.xyz/articles/wtf-since-when-is-bdsm-technically-against-the-law/

Fetishes
•   The World's 10 Most Common Fetishes, Revealed  https://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa/25_love_secrets.html
•   25 Fetishes You Probably Never Knew Existed  https://www.buzzfeed.com/alejandroalba/fetishes-you-probably-never-knew-existed?utm_term=.obrVZj3KLY#.dr60eVqMBA
•   Metro’s A to Z of fetishes  http://metro.co.uk/2017/07/05/metros-a-to-z-of-fetishes-b-is-for-balls-balloons-and-burping-6721512/?ito=cbshare

BDSM in the Media
•   BDSM and the Media: The Influence of Media on the Perception of BDSM  https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/bdsm-and-the-media-two-sides-of-a-coin
•   BDSM in culture and media  http://www.artandpopularculture.com/BDSM_in_culture_and_media
•   BDSM Tropes http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/UsefulNotes/BDSM
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