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 on: Today at 05:57:54 PM 
Started by Admin - Last post by Admin
This is a post so all may see the evolution of the Guidelines per the discussion.

BDSM Room Etiquette, Expectations & Traditions...
to better understand why we're doing the things we're doing.
321Chat's BDSM room is a safe place to teach, learn, and celebrate all things related to Domination, submission, and BDSM. It is also understood that the topic of conversation varies greatly and does not always include D/s or BDSM. BDSM topics are always encouraged, however. Polite debate and discussion of D/s topics should be the goal of the chat room.
While the following are not "rules" and by no means mandatory, we hope you will join us in celebrating some of our traditions and expectations.


•   Respect the other chatters. We do not discriminate between those who participate in BDSM activities and those who do not. We also have a policy of YKINMKBYKIOK (Your Kink Is Not My Kink, But Your Kink Is Okay). The only exceptions are violations of the site rules.

•   Chatters are respectfully requested to register usernames and have a correct age listed in the profile.


•   The Dominants govern the room. The Dominants, as a group, control the behavior, discipline, and tone of the room. The Dominants should encourage others to ignore unpleasant elements in chat and encourage the misdirected chatter to the proper room. The submissives should let the dominants handle the issue. No single Dominant is in charge; the collective majority is. Moderators are present to enforce the site rules.

Though allowing the Dominants the honor of assisting and protecting is preferred and encouraged, under any circumstances, the submissives are empowered to defend themselves. Use of the Block button is suggested for the entire room. Moderators are present to enforce the site rules.


•   Traditionally, a Capitalized name is a Dominant or Top; a lowercase name is a submissive or bottom. Your mileage and grammar preferences may vary.

•   A name with letters in brackets at the end indicates a collared or protected submissive, i.e., jane(D), or a Dominant honoring a submissive with a symbol of the collar, i.e., Dan(j). Okay, this is obviously a no-go. I am asking the Admin is this can be added, so this may or not be changed.

•   While we understand English grammar rules, traditionally, a Dominant is referred to with capitalized pronouns and honorifics as a courtesy, i.e., Her, You, They, Sir, Ma'am; a submissive is referred to with lowercase. This may translate into using phrases like “Y/you A/all”, meaning a collective of Dominants and submissives. Submissive or slave referral to self in third person is acceptable and may be considered a formality. Honorifics are not required in chat.


•   Submissives are encouraged ask permission to enter and leave the chat room. Dominants should grant entrance promptly. This immediately reminds every person attending that this is a BDSM room. It puts the submissives into that mindset, rather than a generic chat or play mindset. Granting entrance also must engage the dominants in their service and attentiveness, too. It produces a symbiosis of D/s in two sentences. It creates a mindset of service and formality that differentiates this room from other general chat rooms. Some Dominants have their own rules for their submissives’ entrance. Those rules will always prevail.
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•   If a collared, protected, or otherwise claimed submissive misbehaves, punishment should be given by the Dominant he/she is protected by. If another Dominant has a complaint about a collared submissive, it should be given directly to that submissive's Dominant, privately. The room’s Dominants will manage punishment or discussion with unprotected submissives or other Dominants. This should be a group decision, not the actions of a single Dominant. Moderators will continue to enforce the website’s rules. redress for subs who have unpleasant encounters with an unethical Dom

•   Please ask to private message other members of the room.

We have a Topic of the Day. Guests are welcome to bring up any questions or new topics at any time, but we will direct chat toward the scheduled topic if there is a lag in the chat. On Topic photographs, art, quotations, thoughts, ideas, definitions, links, questions, teaching, experiences, and jokes are welcome. A calendar for the chats is posted in several places.

Members new to BDSM, both Dominant and submissive, are encouraged to seek an experienced mentor for guidance and learning. Mentorship is not normally a sexual relationship and may or may not cross D/s lines. Questions from newer lifestyle people are always welcome.

•   Unless the Dominant/Top involved in a public scene invites participation, do not jump into the scene through action, advice, or talking with the people in the scene. They are focused on each other and distractions are disruptive. Cross talk during a scene or serve is allowed.

•   While the BDSM Room does have food and drinks from John Norman’s Gor series, as well as a pile of furs for slaves, and Gorean serves and dances are welcome and appreciated, 321sexchat’s BDSM room is not a Gorean chat.

•   Please do not post random porn photos, links, or music to the BDSM room. There are other rooms for that. We prefer our photos to be on theme and coincide with the topic being discussed.

•   For ease of understanding, please spell out all of your words in chat.

•   Politeness is required, respect is earned.

Special Thanks to The BDSM Garden and the BDSM room members for their contributions to this page.


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 on: Today at 05:43:24 PM 
Started by Admin - Last post by Admin
email kissa_bites@yahoo.com to request edits or additions. Not all topics will be addressed each month.

The BDSM room is a haven for learning on any BDSM topic. To facilitate this, we have designated a Topic of the Day. Guests are welcome to bring up any questions or new topics at any time, but we will direct chat toward the stated topic if there is a lag in the chat. On Topic photographs, art, quotations, thoughts, ideas, definitions, links, questions, teaching, experiences, and even jokes are welcome during the day and chats.

We will provide a few articles to refer to before chat.

We do ask that only on-topic photos and art be shared so that we don’t detract from the flow of chat.

aftercare,
shibari/kinbaku/ties
leather/steel bondage,
impact play,
sensation play,
subspace/top space,
safety/safewords/ssc/RACK/Prick,
bdsm vs abuse,
serving,
etiquette/high protocol,
advice for new lifestylers
50 shades of bdsm myths
pervertables/diy toys/household toys
rewards/punishment
what is BDSM/philosophy
relationship dynamics/collar types/collaring
limits/rules
Room Guidelines - vision vs reality.
Role play online and off
Fear in the scene
BDSM vs. abuse
Journaling and journaling topics
Relationship rules
Public outings/public BDSM
BDSM in the media
Self-care for the unpaired
Tools and Toys
Self-training for the unpaired
How kinky is kinky?
Extremes in the lifestyle
Dreaming, BDSM fantasy scenes
Tasks
Hot Pics, Hotter Quotes
BDSM horror stories/ how not to do it

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 on: Today at 05:42:03 PM 
Started by Admin - Last post by Admin
email kissa_bites@yahoo.com to request edits or additions. Not all topics will be addressed each month.

The BDSM room is a haven for learning on any BDSM topic. To facilitate this, we have designated a Topic of the Day. Guests are welcome to bring up any questions or new topics at any time, but we will direct chat toward the stated topic if there is a lag in the chat. On Topic photographs, art, quotations, thoughts, ideas, definitions, links, questions, teaching, experiences, and even jokes are welcome during the day and chats.

We will provide a few articles to refer to before chat.

We do ask that only on-topic photos and art be shared so that we don’t detract from the flow of chat.

aftercare,
shibari/kinbaku/ties
leather/steel bondage,
impact play,
sensation play,
subspace/top space,
safety/safewords/ssc/RACK/Prick,
bdsm vs abuse,
serving,
etiquette/high protocol,
advice for new lifestylers
50 shades of bdsm myths
pervertables/diy toys/household toys
rewards/punishment
what is BDSM/philosophy
relationship dynamics/collar types/collaring
limits/rules
Room Guidelines - vision vs reality.
Role play online and off
Fear in the scene
BDSM vs. abuse
Journaling and journaling topics
Relationship rules
Public outings/public BDSM
BDSM in the media
Self-care for the unpaired
Tools and Toys
Self-training for the unpaired
How kinky is kinky?
Extremes in the lifestyle
Dreaming, BDSM fantasy scenes
Tasks
Hot Pics, Hotter Quotes
BDSM horror stories/ how not to do it

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 on: February 24, 2018, 11:41:14 AM 
Started by Haruhifan - Last post by Haruhifan
English Premier League...in bed

 5 
 on: August 31, 2017, 06:32:12 AM 
Started by Haruhifan - Last post by Haruhifan
Say so long to the summer and welcome in autumn at the Daily Free Quiz! http://www.funtrivia.com/private/main.cfm?tid=72651

Enjoy the Labor Day weekend as well everyone!

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 on: August 06, 2017, 02:40:20 PM 
Started by Haruhifan - Last post by Haruhifan
Greetings!  It's been a while but 1 yearly local convention happened and I was at it so I wrote a new post convention report for it!

To read it please visit http://forum.yugiohtheabridgedseries.com/showthread.php?t=8683 or http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-994425/conbravo-2017

For my past streak of post convention reports please go to the full thread of those.

I'm not as active anymore on the convention scene but if I make one expect a new post convention report from it right here!

 7 
 on: June 29, 2017, 11:52:52 PM 
Started by Haruhifan - Last post by Haruhifan
Hey folks that do drop by.  Even if it's READ ONLY for now, if you want something fun to do and leave comments, do the Daily Quiz at http://www.funtrivia.com/private/main.cfm?tid=72651

Have a Happy Canada Day and Independence Day long weekend!

 8 
 on: May 27, 2017, 09:16:45 PM 
Started by Haruhifan - Last post by Haruhifan
Hi just a heads up that even if I'll only be keeping to local conventions that I'll always do post con reports when I do them!



To follow me you can always check at http://forum.yugiohtheabridgedseries.com/member.php?u=1208 and click on the STATISTICS tab to see my past posts.  You can also see my other profile at http://www.crunchyroll.com/user/trigunkwan but there I post under the Conventions forums normally at http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumcategory-391036/conventions-events so match up my username there to the posts I begin for a report.  Enjoy!

 9 
 on: May 27, 2017, 09:08:19 PM 
Started by Haruhifan - Last post by Haruhifan
As a new month approaches in June, you can always participate in the free Quizzes for the group at http://www.funtrivia.com/private/main.cfm?tid=72651 where you answer 10 multiple choice questions to get the best times and correct answers!  It's a free sign up and play and takes just about a minute daily to do with new topics and themes for each day of the week!  Thank you and have fun with it!

 10 
 on: March 07, 2017, 01:09:10 PM 
Started by Haruhifan - Last post by Haruhifan
If you follow the NCAA Basketball March Madness Tournament, why not for free make your own bracket?  All you need is to have a Yahoo account, go to my group Sexy_Chatters at https://tournament.fantasysports.yahoo.com/t1/group/26496 (it’s a private group; the password is anime), then make your picks for every game even the finals where a final score is a tiebreaker and follow along! 

You get points for each correct game and more for upsets if you call them right.  Brackets can be filled out starting on Sunday, March 12, but you must get your one time entry of picks in by Wednesday, March 15 or at the very latest March 16 before game 1 (check the brackets for your time zone start times).  Good luck it’s all for fun!

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